What Steve Jobs Knew About Your Health (Before the Science Could Prove It)
A 2005 commencement speech about dots, loss, and death turns out to be one of the most accurate descriptions of preventive medicine ever given by a non-doctor.
Steve Jobs stood in front of Stanford’s graduating class on June 12, 2005, and told them three stories. He said it wasn’t a big deal, just three stories.
The effect we all felt with it was a big deal. He wasn’t giving health advice, but it just happened to be exactly that. And life. And hope.
Jobs had been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer the year before. He’d had surgery, and that morning, as far as he knew, he was fine. However, he died six years later.
This is the small legacy he gave us.
The First Story: You Can’t See the Dots Looking Forward
Jobs left college after six months, but kept assisting the classes he was interested about for another 18 months. One of them was calligraphy. Ten years later, it was the reason the first Macintosh had real typography. His point to the Stanford graduates (and the rest of the world): you can only connect the dots looking backward, never forward, so we just have to trust that the choices we make today will mater later in ways we can’t see yet.
This very same year, a study published in JAMA (a peer-reviewed medical journal published by the American Medical Association) tested something similar. They followed adults at high risk for type 2 diabetes for over twenty years, and divided them into three groups:¹
An intensive lifestyle change.
Metformin.
Placebo.
The lifestyle group was asked to cut back on dietary fat, get about 150 minutes of movement a week, and lose somewhere around 7% of body weight. Twenty years later, they had a 25% lower risk of ending up with three or more chronic conditions compared to placebo. The hole list was: heart disease, stroke, kidney disease, depression, dementia, and cancer.
Astronomers have a word for this: lookback time. When you look at a distant star, you’re not seeing it as it is now. You’re seeing light that left it centuries ago, and the star might already be gone, or completely changed. Your choices work the same way. They’re traveling.
The Second Story: What You Love Is Keeping You Alive
Jobs got fired from Apple at 30. He called it devastating, and said the only thing that kept him going was that he still loved what he did. So he started NeXT. And Pixar. Then Apple bought NeXT, and he came back.
It was all about purpose, and what happens when you find your way back to it after it’s been taken from you.
Japanese have a term for purpose: ikigai. The closest translation would be something like a sense that your life is worth living, a reason to get out of bed.
The Ohsaki Study followed 43,391 Japanese adults for seven years, and right at the start, it asked them one question: do you have ikigai in your life?² People who said no had a 50% higher risk of dying from any cause during the follow-up period, compared to those who said yes.
To put it in context: the gap in all-cause mortality between people with and without a sense of purpose sits in roughly the same range as the gap between smokers and non-smokers in a lot of large cohort studies.
The Third Story: Death as a Diagnostic Tool
The Stoics had a practice called memento mori, Latin for “remember you will die.” Marcus Aurelius wrote about it in his journals, and Seneca built a good part of his philosophy around this concept. The idea was simple: keep death present and it will sharpen everything. The trivial stuff falls away, and what actually matters comes forward.
Jobs told the graduates that at 17, he’d read a quote about living each day as if it were your last. And that for the next 33 years, he’d looked in the mirror every morning and asked himself if he’d want to do what he was about to do that day. He said remembering you’re going to die was the best tool he’d ever found for making the big decisions.
He gave that speech with a cancer that had been surgically removed but would, eventually, return.
This third story was the one that hit me hardest the first time I heard it, and it still does. As some of you know, my mother was diagnosed with cancer during my first year of medical school, and we lost her the next year. That experience is a large part of why I became the kind of doctor I am today. Why I’m here, writing these words.
What Jobs described with that mirror ritual actually has measurable effects. Research on mortality salience (the psychological term for being aware of your own death) has found that when people sit with their own finitude, they make different choices.³
Jobs called it the most important tool he’d ever come across. The Stoics called it memento mori. Researchers call it mortality salience. The name’s changed across 2,000 years, but the mechanism is the same. Once your death starts being real, what matters stops being negotiable.
Listen Yourself
All three stories lead to the same place: small, consistent choices compound over time, in both directions, and mostly without your notice.
You can listen to the full speech on YouTube here.
To your zenith within,
Dr. Sara Redondo
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References:
Salive ME, Tjaden AH, Ames JR, et al. Lifestyle and metformin interventions and risk of multimorbidity in adults with prediabetes. JAMA. 2026. doi:10.1001/jama.2026.8492
Sone T, Nakaya N, Ohmori K, et al. Sense of life worth living (ikigai) and mortality in Japan: Ohsaki Study. Psychosom Med. 2008;70(6):709-715. doi:10.1097/PSY.0b013e31817e7e64
Arndt J, Cook A, Goldenberg JL, Cox CR. Cancer and the threat of death: the cognitive dynamics of death-thought suppression and its impact on behavioral health intentions. J Pers Soc Psychol. 2007;92(1):12-29. doi:10.1037/0022-3514.92.1.12
What a wonderful message. This morning I woke earlier than expected and thought I’d meditate and do some painting but instead sat and scrolled on my phone for the past hour. I know I needed to read this message and now I think I’ll put away my phone, meditate and paint. Time flies and it is so important to not waste it. Thank you for your emails, I read them daily and get so much from them
A speech we should really LISTEN to!!